Soooo, a little follow up. I did a few test drives after doing the initial axel change and it was making a grinding noise when I turned right. I my torque wrench only goes to 150 and I think the specs were 229lbs so I guessed on how far past the edge of the gauge I had to go based on the spacing on the actual numbers. after letting the car sit for a few days I checked it again and it was way down to like 75lbs so I tightened it up again past the 150 mark, and marked the bolt, then went on cleaning the garage. After about 30 minutes I went back looked and the markings had moved, I did not move the car al all. I got out the wrench and it was back down below 100. I cranked it up again to as far as I could guessing over 200 by how far past the 150 mark I was and marked the bolt again. let it sit for another 30 minutes while I talked to my car savvy friends. I went back and it was still tight and no movement. Took it for a test drive down to the auto store and no noises. I planned on using their rental torque wrench but theirs only went to 150 too. Drove home no noise and no movement. I am guessing I fixed it so now I crimped it in place and am currently hoping for the best. But still confused on how a bold can come undone just sitting there.