Hi ...well i got as far as the door handle rear connecting rod and i have hit a brick wall !!! ...according to youtube videos the connecting rod connected to the rear of the handle .."You just pop it out " .........what ..???? no way !!!! i have tried with all my might to pull it out never mind pop it out ....this is the rod and connection in the photo....the end of the rod i am supposed to pull out is the end near the top orf the photo ..