sounds to me someone has hashed up wiring your towbar to be honest..
what was the fuse controlling?
caravans draw a lot more power (well the sidelight circuit does) than a trailer as they often have the side light, numberplate light, side marker light and front marker plus the cars lights for that side leading to overloading of the sidelight circuit and popping the fuse....
we have a Ford focus and when the bar was fitted they just scotch hooked into the loom like yours by the sounds of it anyhow we had a short on the front marker light (water bottle pushed onto the back of the front corner marker lamp and pushed the 2 uninsulated spade connections together) first time it popped the sidelight fuse (no problem) then it left us with no roadlights and no dash lights it had popped another fuse which controls the dashboard lights and light switch itself....
Your best bet for protection against this in the future is to....
fit a 7 way bypass relay this isolates the caravan electrics from the car and gives it its own meaty power supply...
https://www.fiatforum.com/grande-pu...ng-towbar-12-n-socket-7-way-bypass-relay.html
its not that complex to be honest think of it as making the wire longer...
take the brake lights for arguments sake....
this is Pin 6 on the towbar socket which is wired RED
(you still following)
this RED used to be scotch locked onto the brake light wire on the cars loom and runs to the socket
instead remove the red wire from the brake light scotch hook and replace with the red wire attached to the relay, the red wire from the socket goes to terminal 6 on the relay
and so on for the other 5 terminals (not counting reverse or earth..)
then the earth from the relay and the earth from the socket (pin 3) need to be crimped together and attached to the chassis..
and you need a live feed from the battery fused with a 20A fuse (think of wiring in a sub supply)
the relay has 8 wires from it (one white to earth) (all coloured as per the light socket) and 7 terminals (one of the 8 wires is reverse)
the 8th gray wire is for a reversing light so ignore that one if you arnt fitting a 12S (white caravan socket)
hope that makes it a bit clearer
also with that relay there is no need to fit a Flash repeater for the trailer indicators as its set in the relay so no messing about with that
Hope that clears it up a bit if you brake it down into one circuit at a time you should have no problems its when you pull and strip the towbar socket wires into the boot along with the 8 wires on the relay it can start to look like a bowl of spaghetti
any more Q's i'll do my best to help
relay can be had from here
http://www.towsure.com/product/13145-Smart_7_Way_Can-Bus_Relay