Here's the method I use on old Fiats (and it hasn't failed me yet

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Refit the large nut by a few turns, leaving a gap between the nut and the steering wheel boss - this has nothing to do with removing the steering wheel, it's to avoid the possibility of personal injury...
Check that the front wheels are pointing straight ahead before attempting to remove the steering wheel - this is so you can refit the steering wheel in the correct position when finishing the work.
Now, grip the wheel each side at the spokes, push down/in on the left spoke while pulling up/out on the right spoke, then swap over pulling on the left spoke and pushing on the right spoke i.e. you are trying to wiggle or rock the wheel on the splines - it'll should come loose but won't hit you in the face because you refitted the nut loosely. Now remove the nut and the steering wheel.
P.S. -
There are special steering wheel pulling tools available - some use a metal ring that fits behind the wheel boss to spread the load from a puller, another type uses cushioned arms that fit behind the spokes close to the centre boss, some steering wheels might have threaded holes in the centre boss to which a puller can be attached.
And, no, I'm not suggesting you buy a special tool for this once-off use, just pointing out the existence of such tools in case you might be able to borrow one by asking around.