"M-M" wires/leads have bad reputation (they work, until they don't). Try different brand, doesn't have to be expensive. For example "NGK" works fine (better than Magneti). Or "Champion". Both have lower resistance (possibly even under 1k) and all 4 wires will be pretty equal. Use some dielectric grease (regular silicone grease - not labeled "for high voltage" etc. - will do, PTFE filled or not), to avoid rubber boot sticking to the sparkplugs (that's how you damage the leads, by pulling).
For high voltage wiring like that (working in "pulses" = it's a "radio transmitter", AM range mostly), the resistance in kilo-ohms is not a big problem (you actually don't "waste" much energy - this is
not like DC or low freq. AC circuit), in theory. But values should be similar, I mean equal between the 4 "cables" (how much is a different story, is it 1k, 5k, 10 kilo). Old-school books (this is from 1970's) say, that about 5 kilo is already enough to suppress radio stuff (and our spark plugs for Grande have 5 kilo resistor inside, so you don't need to double or triple that).
By the way. Energy lives outside (but very close to) the wires (inside, when it's a coaxial cable for example), we need metal wiring "only" to guide it (both regular cables and antennas must be conductive, for same reasons). Electrical Engineering basic stuff, 100+ years old. But now "controversial" and viral on YouTube (last 2-3 years).